This is a quote from my youngest son - he is 23. The system stole his little sister, his God daughter, his favorite person in the whole world. ~ "For my entire life I have lived in my little alternative reality where people are honest and good, however for the past 6 months I have been really challenged as I've come to the realization that there truly is terrible corruption, abuse of power and just plain "bad" people in this world. It's incredibly disheartening." This is what CPS/DHS and our family court system has taught him about our world.
How are you suppose to function and live life like you once did? How can you get up in the morning full of energy and determination? How can you ever trust anyone or anything again? How can you stay focused or enjoy the little things in life? Please tell me how to have faith, strength and hope when your child has been ripped out of your arms. She has been stolen from you and her entire family. Not only is she gone but you fear her returning more than the fear you had when they threatened to take her. If and when she comes home to me she must also return to her molesting father, unsupervised. The court, CPS, DHS and all those involved are completely ignoring her disclosure. The entire focus is on co-parenting. One can not co-parent with a molester. I can jump through all of their hoops in order for her to return. I can not stop him from further molesting her and he will. She can continue to disclose but I can not report. They have made up their minds that she is being coached. So unless he is caught red handed molesting or abusing her, she will continue to see him and be harmed. Tell me how do I live life with this hanging over me ? I can not protect my innocent daughter. How do I get over the pain of knowing what her future holds? How do I get over knowing I did everything I could and no one will believe her, no one will help her? I have reached out in every direction for help. The government, courts are corrupt. They protect pedophiles. They have no respect for children. Children are a commodity. My child is a pawn in a money game. She is left vulnerable and unprotected by the agency put in place to protect her. Once your child is ripped from your arms, you will never trust the world again. Once they give her back you will be tortured until she is an adult. You will be fully aware of what is happening to her yet you are bound by invisible chains that prevent you from saving her. The government and courts are your life now. They own her and they own you. She is their prisoner and you are both gagged. Your word is not respected. The pedophile and his father's right supercede your child's rights. Her right to a happy, healthy and loving life have been stripped. You as a protective mother will find yourself frozen with fear.