It has been over a year. I have played all their games. I watched them lie and manipulate things. They wanted to try to get to the bottom of her abuse through counseling. They didn't want it to be with her counselor, the one she disclosed to. CPS gave her a new DHS counselor and when she got another job, they gave her another DHS counselor.
The father told my daughter that this counselor was his counselor and he talks to her. She will not talk to this woman, she can not trust her.
When they realized counseling was not going to get to the bottom of it, they agreed to a family assessment. I begged for this sin last December and said I would pay. NO!
The assessment began in September. It was very thorough. A child psychologist interviewed my daughter and she disclosed. This psychologist is an expert in her field, a college professor that has written may books on sexual abuse. She has spoken to groups and has been involved in extensive research. Her credentials are outstanding.
My daughter, her father and I were all separately given psychological evaluations by another psychologist with outstanding credentials.
I was interviewed by a woman with a masters degree that has extensive knowledge on this topic. The father was interviewed by a man with a Ph.D.
There were about 12 people interviewed as collateral. The interviews were done by interns that all have a masters degree. There was also a legal professional on the team.
It took over a month to get the results. It was beyond obvious that there were numerous red flags about dad. It was recommended that he have a sex offenders assessment and a neuro-psych evaluation done.
Father was caught lying throughout the tests and interview, he intentionally tried to manipulate the tests. He stated counseling was bullshit and it was determined he would not be a good candidate for therapy.
So with this amazing team of experts shedding light on the dangers of the father, DHS, judge, GAL are still on my ass for coaching. Mind you in July DHS wanted her returned to me UNSUPERVISED. I refused as nothing had been resolved in counseling and the assessment hadn't been approved. I would not jeopardize my case and be alone with my daughter. I would not give them any chance to use coaching against me. I could not ruin this for my precious daughter.
In early October DHS again wanted her returned to me unsupervised. They had no concerns about me and I had been appropriate the entire year. I again refused as the assessment was not complete.
In court last week DHS brought up one concern. My brother in law - the foster dad had told DHS two things. 1 - Dad talked about court to his daughter (we have gag orders on this) 2 he also mentioned in all fairness and to remain unbiased that I had said something about dad during a skype conversation with my daughter.
We did not have a hearing, they all met in chambers. Nothing was mentioned about the results of a $5000.00 assessment done by experts. There was no mention of the father getting in his daughter's face about court. The focus was on me coaching, me talking to the foster mom (my sister).
Now father wants 15 people interviewed, cops, pool team members, girlfriends, court whores etc.
He is grasping to cover his pedophile ass and the judge - DHS are helping him.
We live in corruption, we are corruption unless we make a stand against it!
