Part 2 of Beginning of the Nightmare

Court - he wants full custody. Why does he want to take a 2 year old away from her mom?

I met a man and dated him. I was unaware he was a sex offender. Once I learned this told him we could not have a relationship. He never lived with me and he was never alone with my daughter.

A few days before the custody hearing CPS was called to my house with allegations I lived with this sex offender. The referral was unsubstantiated. There was no proof he lived here. He had his own home and I had witnesses to attest to the fact he was not involved with me anymore.

That referral was a horrible blow to my custody case, it wasn't true but it was a great shield for the real sex offender (her father) to hide behind.

She was two and a half, barely knew this man and was forced into regular visitation.

He had access to her without me to protect her and I watched my happy, confident and beautiful daughter crumble in front of my eyes.

She had slept all night in her room, door closed and the lights off. Within weeks she needed the door open and then the lights on, eventually she was in my bed terrified to be alone.

She was fully potty trained but after a few weeks began to wet herself and was back in diapers.

She started saying odd things like "ho ho gets my poopy, ho ho hurts my poopy". It changed to "daddy hurts my booty, pupa hurts my booty". She took a medicine dispenser one day when she came out of the bathroom with her pants off. She laid on the floor and tried to put in in herself. 

I knew something was horribly wrong yet she couldn't find the words or was afraid to tell me.

Her father began visits in February 2010.

She cries when she must go there. The friend of the court blames it on "transitional" issues.

She throws things, hits me and her sister, she talks like a baby. She has nightmares and cries out for me.

My adult daughter(a counselor) her husband and my adult son have all noticed the behavior changes. They have heard her bizarre disclosures about ho ho.

They tell me I must call CPS and they will help.

That was a huge mistake.

By June of 2010 I knew I had to call CPS.

CPS set up an appointment at a CAN. My daughter would not say anything during her interview.

They decided that they should do a physical exam. Nothing showed up but the physician told me over 90% of cases show no physical signs unless horrible trauma.

While we were in the room waiting for the doctor my daughter pinched her finger in a drawer. She cried and said it hurt. The woman asked her if anyone ever hurt her vagina. She replied "My daddy". The woman asked her what daddy did. "He hit it" and then she demonstrated hitting herself with an open hand and her index finger.

This disclosure was not in the CPS report. The police officer also made light of it.

She was not quite 3 and this was not good enough for CPS to substantiate sexual abuse. It was enough for them to start building a case against me though.

In July she is still acting out and saying strange things. I caught her rubbing herself with a golf tee and one of her toy rings. She made comments when i would tell her it's not safe to touch herself - "daddy touched my vagina" - "daddy shows me his booty" - puppa hurts my booty".

I again report to CPS her comments and behaviors. Father accuses mom of "putting shit in his kids head and he will take a poly". He has never taken one yet!

I start my daughter and myself in  counseling. I am hopeful that we can find out what is going on with her. I need help to deal with this horrible situation.

By October her fear has escalated. She begs not to go to her fathers. He forces her out of her car seat kicking, screaming and crying out for me. My heart is broken. I can not protect her.

Her father does not know his parenting time schedule and would show up when he wasn't suppose to. He would call police and have them come to my home. He was wrong and lying but was trying to build a case against me for denying parenting.

Police would submit these reports yet would not ask for my side of the story. In my town if you call the police they get the info for the complaint and therefore it it true.

November 2010 My daughter returns with a horrible bruise below her butt. I am in another county when it is noticed. Her brother in law asked her what happened. She said "Daddy spanked me". The police were called, pictures taken and case referred back to my county CPS. My daughter told the caseworker the next week daddy hit her but when asked where she pointed to a different body part then where the bruise was. Again CPS disregarded this, a child of 3 that was probably hit in many areas did not or could not explain this.

She continues to disclose "daddy hit me with a stick" - "do I have to go to daddy's? - "daddy ties me up puts me in a box"

She has trouble sleeping and is wetting herself.

I and other family members have called CPS. The amount of referrals is now being used against me. CPS said father and his parents want to pursue "false allegations" against me and CPS will help them. They contact the local prosecutor. He has known me and my family my whole life. He told them he would not go after me and they would have to go to another county to press charges.

The referrals are rejected for the most part.

July of 2011 My daughter is in the tub. My adult son is sitting in the room with her and I am right outside the bathroom. My son came out to tell me I needed to hear what my daughter told him.

She told me "grandma puts a toothbrush on her privates and it feels good, daddy spanks my vagina".

When she got out of the tub she complained her vagina hurt. My son and I took her to the E.R.

She told the R.N. the same thing and she called CPS.

My daughter had a yeast infection that the officer said must be caused by bubble baths.

My daughter told the officer her dad spanks her but again that was disregarded.

CPS stated in report I was somewhat emotional and that I voiced concerns about father being violent. CPS states he has no criminal record. You can not get his criminal record for some reason yet police were called out numerous times for domestic violence and property damage. I know this as the women he did these things to told me and their family members also backed them.

Ironically two days after I called CPS about dad a call was made saying I was living with that sex offender.

CPS has every right to take my child if this were  true. I respect that they despise sex offenders. I guess they only despise non bio ones. CPS told my mom "dad has rights, we have to protect his rights". My daughter has rights. She has the right to be safe. How dare CPS protect her sex offending father?

More complaints were made and rejected.

more to come of this nightmare........

The Beginning of the Nightmare Part 1

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DHS manipulates my daughter and counselor!!

My daughter was in counseling over a year ago. It took months but she trusted enough to tell her secrets. Secrets between her and her daddy. Horrible sexual abuse, she told and she drew pictures.
Her counselor wrote amazing letters about his concerns and that she be believed and protected.
CPS did not care to discuss the abuse case with him. He also became a discreditable. He was once contracted through DHS and was let go as he believed my daughter.
DHS/CPS took my daughter from me and that counselor. They started her with a new one the judge said "she needed a fresh start".
Fresh start?? This little girl already disclosed.
The new counselor lasted 3 months and moved on to a new job.
My daughter was given another counselor. Her 1st appointment was yesterday.
The counselor asked my daughter if she knew why she was coming there. My daughter said to talk.
The DHS appointed counselor said "yes to talk, we will talk about how you are doing, how to behave at your visits with mom and dad and about fibbing".
1- The visits are not gong well with her father. He puts her in time out, she tells him she doesn't like him and to leave her alone. She sits on him and squirms, grinds on him. I am aware of this from a trusted source. I also know that DHS only reports what they want to report. My daughter has been told that she must hug her father, tell him that she loves him.
Why does this counselor believe that she also needs to tell my daughter how to treat her molesting father?
2 - Fibbing??? She disclosed to CPS caseworker (worker believes she was coached) she disclosed to myself, her 2 older sisters, a friend of mine that was watching her and her counselor. Her story never changed.
DHS, GAL and judge all oppose an assessment for my daughter. They are giving this "fresh start" a chance to work. They believe my daughter will eventually tell this counselor the "truth".
The truth is CPS, DHS, judge and GAL her daddy is a sick molester and each and everyone of you is protecting a molester.

You are intentionally blocking her from speaking out. You are manipulating her to recant and you have gagged her from ever

speaking the truth again. 
She told the truth. She was brave as he threatened her that it was their little secret and she still told.
He said he would kill her mom and she still told.
You have set her up and are placing her on a silver platter so her father can use her little body for his sick enjoyment.
You all will rot in hell for what you have done.
CPS take down your posters telling people to call you about abuse. You are looking for more children for your money making scam. Foster care money, treatment plan money, kick back for the judge money, pedophile ring money, long custody battle money.....money money -money.
Where is the truth in advertising?? Put on your posters your real agenda.
How sick that you hide under the pretense of protecting children!!

"Daddy made me lick his penis"

A couple of nights before CPS took my daughter, I was driving the car and my daughter was in the back seat. She blurted out "daddy made me lick his hole". I asked "what hole"? 

She responded " the one on his penis where the pee comes out".

A few hours later she was in the kitchen and I was doing dishes. 

She opened a drawer that contains gums, mints, chap stick and other fun things. She pulled out a carmex lip balm tube, took off the red cover and said "it looks like this mom, the hole on daddy's penis, well except it's brown not yellow".

I told her that she should talk to her counselor as he could help her. The next afternoon she had an appointment with her counselor. She not only told him, she drew pictures of her licking daddies penis. 

The counselor spoke to me alone after her session. He told me she disclosed, drew pictures and then started to scribble over the drawings. He said he had to ask her not to ruin the drawings.

The next day CPS stole her. They never even investigated this last disclosure. CPS simply noted that they received the report and drawings from her counselor. No one but the one caseworker interviewed my daughter. WHY???

This is what she has missed.....so far :(

CPS took Malia after another disclosure. She told her counselor "Daddy made me lick his penis". They very next afternoon Malia was ripped from me. They shut her up, she was telling too much. Malia drew 2 pictures of this for her counselor and then she started to scribble over them.
That was in the beginning of November 3013.

Since then Malia missed her niece's 2nd birthday party. Thanksgiving, Christmas with her siblings and Christmas with her extended family. She missed the New Years party, her sister in law's baby shower, her sister's 17th birthday, an out of town visit to her big sisters and a Pro-Life benefit dinner. 
Malia missed 2 visits to the hospital to see her new nephew and the 4 other times the family got together to visit him and his parents.
She missed a family trip over spring break to Savannah Georgia.
There was no Easter Egg hunt this year for her and her 3 nieces and 3 nephews.
Malia will not be able to participate in the dance recital this year as she was placed so far away in foster care she missed too many classes.
Her big brother will be moving away soon to start a job out of state. He is her Godfather and her favorite person in the whole world. He drove 13 hours the night he heard they took Malia so he could be with our family. He rushed home as this couldn't possibly be happening, he needed to be here to help. There was nothing he could do, Malia was gone. It was almost 2 months after that before he could see her. Since November she has seen her big brother 3 times for 2 hours per visit. 6 hours is all she has been allowed to see her siblings. 
Malia is not allowed to see any other family. She can not see her grandma, her cousins, nieces and nephews.

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He Has Had Other Victims

A woman comes to my house as part of the CPS court ordered treatment plan. I must go through this to have my daughter returned.
She has a police officer sit down the road when she visits the father's home. He lives with his bully father and mom.
She told me that grandpa(bully) and the judge have a relationship. She is not sure what it is yet.
During a supervised visit she watched father and daughter. Daughter squirmed and pressed into father's genital area. He never stopped her.
She brought this to the attention of the supervisor who was oblivious that it was inappropriate. 
Supervisor did say that I spoiled my daughter, I was always bringing new things to the visits. (I always bring things from home to give her a connection to her previous life here) My daughter has a lot of toys, crafts, games, books, dolls etc. I always take a homemade healthy meal for her.
The woman told me the problem with my situation as a whole is that children in foster care are not spoiled. They do not have a huge loving, intelligent family sending emails and calling DHS. They send cards, notes and pictures to their little sister. All of these activities are being used against me. I am forcing my family to go along with my need for control and my need to keep super daddy away from his daughter.
Even the fact that I put her in counseling is being used against me. My daughter has been is counseling since she was 3 to help her and I deal with her behavior and disclosures. My attorney said if I were coaching I would be an idiot to put her in counseling as she would eventually tell that I made her say those things. DHS sees it as abuse because there is nothing wrong with my daughter, she does not "NEED" counseling.
In the past the supervisor has raised hell to other parents for not bringing healthy food or activities. I am viewed as doing this spoiling to make her say lies about her molesting dad per the supervisors opinion of me.
The supervisor made a point of walking across room to tell this woman that my visit she was watching was not normal. It was - we play, do crafts, read books etc. My daughter has had moments of whining, lashing out but I always redirect her. This supervisor made a point of saying I never help my daughter with reading. LIE! We read all the time. Sometimes she reads or I do or we read ever other page. Wow I am a horrible mom. I raised 4 children that graduated college, I think I have the reading issue under control.
I have an hour and a half visit, reading is not the bulk of it - so fucking sorry!! 
The supervisor made no attempt to communicate during the father's visit.
This woman told me that foster care worker is clearly on father's side. The supervisor called foster worker to say that the woman was concerned about visit with the father.. The foster worker sent an email to this woman wanting to know what concerns there were about father's visit. The woman said caseworker wants to know so she can tell father how to change his inappropriate behavior. Caseworker was not concerned about what was said about me during my visit.
The woman will not tell caseworker, she wants to watch father at another visit. She knows he is going to fail at correcting it without someone telling him how to.
The woman feels as all those involved are completely biased. They are all on father's side. She forbid me to talk to anyone from DHS. To be very careful what I say in counseling.
I am not allowed to be alone with my daughter for 1 minute. She had surgery and of course he was there putting on a show. He never took her to a doctor once when he had her. She needed help with her gown and I went in bathroom with her, shut the door. He was pissed and told my sister who was supervising that. So she told me to leave door open when I changed her to go home. He stood there watching us. My daughter was clearly upset. I told him she wanted some privacy. He said "well you were in there".
The woman told me he admitted he watched his 6 year old undressing. She told me I made a mistake and I should have let him change her, maybe then DHS would see his "ODD" behavior.
She told me that father will be looking for other victims as he has had no access to his daughter in over 4 months. She thinks he will move on to his girlfriends son. She wants to speak with the boys father. She has a lot of good ideas that I can not share for fear of tipping father off. Scary shit.
She knows that grandpa and the judge have connections. She told me grandpa said that if I ever step foot on his property he will kill me.
At the end of the day what is disturbing is that they are so busy being biased that no one is listening, no one that has the power will help this little girl!

polygraph

From the very first call to CPS Jacob Sadro always said "Her mom is putting shit in her head and I will take a polygraph!"
4 years later and after numerous polygraphs were scheduled he has not taken one.
It has appeared to show innocence to law enforcement and CPS. He offered to take one, he must be innocent.
CPS workers(Cherrie Mooney - Sharon Cook and Judge David Clabuesch)  took my daughter November 7, 2013. I was accused of sexual/mental abuse and coaching. 
Within a few weeks I took a polygraph. The examiner was a retired State Trooper that trains others in my state, he is one of the best. I passed.
While we were at co-parenting counseling the allegations of sexual abuse were brought up.
1st Jacob had a tantrum and was going to leave the room. The counselor asked what could be done as I believed my daughter and he believed he was falsely accused.
I said I never accused him of anything - I simply reported what my daughter told me.
I said maybe Jacob wants to take a polygraph.
Jacob immediately said "I will if she does." I said I took one. He wanted to know when. I said November - oh he did not know that.
Then he mumbled for a while about how they were inadmissible and he checked it all out.
I said you offered to take them, you never made it to any of the scheduled appointments. 
I said that if your excuse for not taking one is because you believe I haven't - I did take one. Jacob then said he was not driving over an hour to take a polygraph and he did not have to PROVE his innocence to me.
I said "no, you do not have to prove your innocence to me."
Police did ask me during one investigation if I would take one and I said YES.
I have nothing to hide.
If you were accused of making your child lick your penis wouldn't you want to clear your name??
He knows he doesn't have to - he has DHS on his side helping him get full custody.
CPS/DHS love pedos and fully support them as does law enforcement, family court and all the court whores.
Once Jacob Sadro was arrested and charged with CSC he DECLINED to take the polygraph he had been begging for all those years.

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