Tuesday, January 7, 2014

She is 6, leave her alone!

First they rip her away from her family, mom, school, dance, religion and her previous counselor. Then after they have her completely isolated they make agreements with her.
DHS, CPS and foster care are manipulative and controlling evil people.
My daughter said to the supervisor in the hallway "What NOW??!"
I wonder what that is all about.
I know they have an agreement, as my daughter told them she didn't say anything bad to me. Lady said of course you didn't we have an agreement.
She told me one day that she can come home when daddy and I stop fighting. I said we don't even talk, who told you this? Immediately supervisor was in the room stopping the conversation.
My daughter asks every time I visit if she can come home with me. She asks why I have to leave. They say it's time to switch, time to see daddy and she again asks "Why?".
"I can come home in 90 days mommy, maybe."

Why are they allowed to tell her anything, yet I am not?
Does she even know how hard I am trying to bring her home?

They sent 3 garbage bags full of toys, books and notes that she had with her. There is not enough room for her to have these things from home. She hardly has anything from here. I cried as I went through the bags, the note from her big sister and grandma. Her mommy and me book that has a photo of when she was little. Her 2 favorite baby dolls.

I cry every day and night, my heart breaks. I have my children, siblings, mom, friends and other protective moms to talk to, cry to and hug. She has no one.

I called foster care lady to see if my 15 year old could get a 2nd visit with her sister. I was told I could not call on her behalf. Her father can call. He is my ex, father of my 1st 3 children. Only he can call, only he can take her for visits. Her older siblings can not.
Why are adult siblings denied visits?? Ombudsman office said sibling visits are for young children.(Their handbook does not specify age, only that siblings are to have visits) My daughter is 6, she does not understand why age is a factor. She only knows she feels alone and abandoned.

So now she is alone and the only people allowed to influence her are the ones that took her. Will they manipulate her into doing or saying what fits their agenda? 
If they truly pay attention to visits it is obvious she wants to come home. Home with me.
They boss and meddle when I am there. They are not the mom, it is my time with her. My hour and a half, leave us in peace. Let her be happy for her three hours a week.
First she has suffered three years of physical, emotional and sexual abuse from her father. Now she must suffer the abuse of DHS, CPS and Foster Care.
Will she ever heal??
She is such a sweet angel and they will destroy her.

"I wish I could come home mom."
"I love you mom."
"I miss you mom."




4 comments:

  1. You have not included information about why she was taken from your care.

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  2. it is in other blogs - she was taken because I reported what she disclosed....CPS believes I coached these horrible disclosures!!

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