Wednesday, March 5, 2014

How many times must she disclose?


It began before she was 3 years old. Malia was trying to show me through her behavior and then with her words someone was hurting her. Malia disclosed physical, sexual and emotional abuse since 2010. At first she would try and insert objects into her vagina. She would say things like "HoHo gets my poopy." Her disclosures later changed to pupa gets my booty, daddy hurts my booty. Malia came home with bruises. Malia feared for my safety - "Daddy wants to shoot you because you won't let him see me enough." She went on to say "Daddy has guns, he showed them to me." "If daddy shoots you, will you grab my hand and pull me up to heaven with you?"

Her disclosures continued with "Daddy woke me up with a squirt gun, upstairs on his bed." "Daddy sleeps naked with me and rubs his LEG on me."

"Grandma uses a toothbrush on my privates and it feels good, daddy spanks my privates." "Daddy uses a q-tip to clean my vagina." "Daddy showed me pictures of girls licking guys penises." "Daddy made me lick his penis."

In 2013 Malia disclosed for over 2 months to her counselor. She told him things in 4 different sessions. 
She disclosed to CPS worker. DHS now forced her to see new counselor - family therapist.
Those involved DHS/judge want her to have a fresh start, come clean. If she has a new counselor they will find out how she has so much sexual knowledge.
 I told college educated foster care worker Amber Young,  "she has knowledge because these things happened to her 1st hand".
Ms. Young believes my daughter will tell this new counselor. Malia already told her counselor of 9 months and drew pictures for him.

Am I an idiot? They removed Malia after she told too much to her previous counselor. Why would she ever talk again??? I believe Malia needs to go to an assessment center. Currently judge denied it.
They are blocking the only chance she has for the truth to be known.
The truth is already out there - Malia told.
What do they expect from a 6 year old??
Do they need to manipulate her into saying "mommy made me say these things" - so she can come home??
I would rather she never come home than for them to coerce her into lying, which will force her to be with her abuser.

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