Protective Moms

So a family member said to me "There must be more to the story, they had to lose their children for a reason."
I threw that back in his face when CPS took my child.
He knows I am an awesome mom. He married my oldest daughter. I watched their baby when my daughter returned to work. He knew she was in great hands. They are both successful people, graduating with master's degrees. They own their own home, have great jobs.
Not that he is proud to say it today after what he saw them do to my little girl and our entire family. He believed they were rescuing children from abuse and neglect. He was unaware of the corruption and child trafficking going on.

He believed that only children in grave harm were removed from their homes.
He told me to report the abuse my daughter disclosed. He told me CPS would help me. He said I had to protect my daughter, he is right but I knew my situation best.

I told him I can not report anymore, they threatened to put her in foster care if I did again. I told him my protective moms agreed it was not safe to do so.
He looked at me as if I were a tad crazy. He could not believe that I could trust women that had lost their children in custody battles or to CPS (they all lost them to abusers, they knew the game) He felt as though they were hiding some of the facts from me. Good moms would not lose custody. Good moms would not have issues with CPS.
He was wrong. These moms are great moms. They are strong, intelligent, caring and protective. They are warriors and they are my heroes. I love these moms. They have kept me going through this nightmare. They have shared their stories, offered advice, listened to me cry and prayed for me.
He now looks at me and my protective moms with a new found respect. He is aware of the power CPS has and how much corruption is involved..
He met with  DHS workers. They were rude to him, they shot him down. I said welcome to my nightmare. I have been dealing with them for years.
He is appalled that they would not believe a 5 year old, they would not protect her. Instead they stole her. They blamed me for mentally abusing her, coaching her. He knew that was a lie.
He is appalled they placed her with strangers as we have a huge loving family that would take her.

Sadly more wrong goes on than right. He had to see it first hand to believe what I have told him for years.. The average citizen has no idea the corruption going on inside DHS and our family court system.
He knows now and the whole world needs a wake up call.
CPS is a corrupt - child trafficking agency. Family court gives custody to abusers. Both do it because money is the incentive and children are pawns.
Education is key. Spread the word and start saving our innocent children. It is your world, be the change you want to see.
Open your eyes, open your hearts and do something before a generation of children become a generation of damaged adults.
Protective moms are simply that - moms willing to do whatever it takes to protect their babies. Do not judge them, you have no idea the hell they have been through. Many spends years in this hell, they are abused by exes, the court system, CPS, counselors, attorneys. They don't stop their fight until every penny is gone and even then they continue to fight.
It's what mommies do. It what God put us on this earth to do, protect our innocent babies.

The Detective - where do they get their credentials?!

The Detective was not present during the CPS forensic. He was not going to interview my daughter as he had no experience. He also was not interested in her having one done at an assessment center.
He arrived at my home the day after I called CPS to let them know her disclosure.
She disclosed that daddy showed her pictures on his cell phone of girls sucking on guys penises. Girls pulling their butt cheeks apart. She said that daddy told her girls like to do that for guys. It feels good, they like it. He showed her this at the "sugar shack" cabin in the woods with a bed and a table. Later when she was naked and ready for her bath she jumped on the couch, pulled her legs apart and began to touch her privates. She said this is what the girls do in the pictures. She later while in the tub put her finger in her butt. She said "Mommy I put my finger in my butt." I asked "Why?" She replied "It feels good." I told her she could scratch herself, her hands are dirty. She told me "I like it."
I told this to the detective.
He asked me numerous questions. 2 pages of his report were about my interview.
The detective told me that he called the suspect and left him a voice mail.
This was his investigation of the father.It was done 6 days later, after he left him a message.
Detective asked father if he knew why he was there.
He stated he had no idea, but could assume it had something to do with *&^% (me) because she has contacted law enforcement and CPS so many times. The detective explained that *&^% had contacted him and filed a complaint on what their daughter had seen on his cell phone along with other issues of his parental care while she was with him.
When detective told me there were no pics on the phone I said "You gave him 6 days notice". He replied "He didn't know why I called him."
Detective asked if there was any porn on his phone and he stated no. He showed the detective his phone, after viewing pics and videos no porn was found.
He was asked about a sugar shack in the woods. Father said they have a cabin in the woods that they use to make maple syrup,but do not call it the "sugar shack". Detective asked if he ever takes his daughter to the cabin. He said yes as there is a pond there and they go fishing. Father then got on his phone and showed detective a google search where he was looking up how to raise wax worms for fishing. (did it occur to the detective that possibly daddy google porn on his phone to show his 6 year old daughter???)

He asked father if he ever touched his daughter in a sexual manner or if he ever kissed her butt or vagina. The father said "no way". Father became very upset over the question and stated he had to stop helping his daughter in the bathroom when she was a young child because of all the complaints *&^% filed against him. (actually my daughter told me this summer, "daddy still wipes my butt and I don't like it".- I sent him a text a asked him if he could let her do it herself, she was almost 6, he never replied). Father reiterated he has never touched his daughter in a sexual manner. (the detective stressed to me that suspect denied allegations, I said isn't that normal? The detective said "No, they often confess. Really when?????
The father stated if someone was to do that they should go to prison. ( his brother went to prison as a sex offender, his other brother was accused of molesting his teenage daughter. See the pattern??)
The father went on to say *&^% (me) was now going around to local churches and putting papers up that ask for them to pray for his daughter because she is exposed to a molester. (Where are these alleged signs? If dad says so it's true?? If daughter said daddy made me lick his penis it carries no weight.)

Detective asked our history. Father said we dated a while but I was seeing other people.(1 we never dated anyone, including him.) He was a brief affair while I was married. He stated he moved into my house (No he did not - I have 50 witnesses that know this). Our relationship did not work as I was out partying all the time. I was a mom of an infant at the time that did not sleep. I also has a full time job. Again he can say things and they are true. Father also stated he was concerned about his daughter in my care when he is not supervising me.
Father agreed to a polygraph yet failed to make either appointment.
Detective did let me know how willing suspect was to take the poly. I said "Yep, but he never took it."

That is the beginning and end of his investigation.

The assistant prosecutor said my daughter was not competent, so no subpoena for phone, no warrant for sugar shack.
I stopped at their office and was given a post it telling me to talk to CPS. My daughter had made new disclosures and no one would help. I again called the prosecutors office and my call was not returned.

If your 5 year old daughter came home from a visit and told you these things would you feel as though she were given a fair criminal investigation???
He closed his report without ever speaking to her counselor even though I faxed him a letter from the counselor. The counselor had a disclosure and pictures. My daughter disclosed twice after this and I informed the detective. He told me "investigation is over, it is in CPS's hands now."
Oh by the way the detective and the suspect used to work together at a factory. Wouldn't that be a conflict?

I want to see my family for Christmas

I am still in foster care, with strangers. They will not let me see or speak to anyone but mom and my abusing father.
I have sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews, grandma, aunts, uncles and cousins. They all miss and love me.
I want to see them for Christmas. Isn't Christmas about family?
My family will do anything to make this happen. They have written letters and made calls. They just get told "no".
Why not? What did I do that I have to be alone? I wasn't allowed to see them for Thanksgiving either.
I need my family, they are my support. I am happy and safe when I am with them.
Please at least can I see my sisters and brothers? Please I will be good. I won't tell on daddy anymore, just please let me see my family.
Mommy always said to tell the truth. She said I was brave, she said they would help keep me safe. I may be safe from daddy for now. But I am afraid, I cry, I am lonely.
My niece and nephew put on their Christmas list that they want Santa to bring me home in his sleigh. I miss them they are 4 and 7. We have so much fun together. I hope they get their Christmas wish. I could help Santa when he puts me in his sleigh.

We have an agreement

My daughter is on guard during our visits. She told the foster care worker "I didn't say anything bad."
The lady replied "I know you didn't, we have an agreement."
What kind of an agreement does DHS have with a 6 year old. What are they telling her??
Who is coaching who?

They bring her in the back door. Why?? Standard procedure is foster care parents come in the front. They are allowed to interact with the parents. No me.

Standard procedure is to try and unite the children with family over holidays. They will not allow this even though my son and I have sent emails asking for a visit. We will do anything, go anywhere. Why are they keeping her from her family?

Siblings and grandma, uncles etc. may write her notes. DHS must read them first and approve them. They may send gifts with mom.

Is CPS woman worried that she failed to protect my daughter for 3 years so she makes up an elaborate story that I am coaching? Is she breaking all the rules to cover her ass??

Is it uncommon for a child to disclose as she gets older?? CPS did nothing in the past as she wouldn't disclose to them. Now she did, in great detail, now she is being coached. Why wasn't she coached all these years?

Is this woman so evil that she would protect a molester? Is she so evil she wouldn't believe a child? Is she so evil that she has the child in lock down, isolated? She won't allow visits in the town the child is, where there are other supervisors, neutral ones. Is she so evil that she would weave a web of lies to her coworkers?

Who is doing the coaching? Who is manipulating this child who is all alone?

I am a little girl isolated from everyone

I told on my dad. He did things that hurt and scared me.
They stopped daddy from seeing me for a little while.
I thought they believed me and would keep him away forever.

Instead they came and got me. Mommy held me and we cried. I was so afraid.
They told me it was only for a few days but I didn't see mommy again for 6 days.
They gave me a bear. I took it back. It reminded me of the night they took me away.

I cry for mommy. I cry for my sisters and brothers. I cry for grandma. I cry for my friends from my other school.
They won't take me to dance class or religion. They put me in a new big school I don't know anyone.
I am scared.

They let me see mommy and daddy 2 times a week for an hour. I told them I don't want to see daddy that long. I asked them to stay in the room when daddy is there. They told me no.

They made me see a lady doctor, one that you talk to. I used to talk to my counselor. I told him what daddy did. I can't see him anymore. I wonder if he doesn't believe me. I don't want to talk to this lady, maybe I will get in more trouble.

 I told a lady what daddy did. Mommy said that lady (CPS) would help me. She must not believe me either or why did they take me from my mommy? I guess mommy was wrong and this lady wouldn't help.

I want to come home for Christmas. They told me I could. I have been here a long time. I don't know who to believe. I don't know what to believe. I am scared. I want my mommy. I want my sisters and brothers. What did I do that no one comes to see me? Why can't they come see me? I ask my mommy every time she visits if I can go home but she leaves me here. She is my mommy, how can she leave me here? Does mommy still love me? Does anyone love me? No one must love me, no one comes to see me. No one will take me home.
I am so scared, I am so lonely. What did I do?

I remember now - I told on my daddy. I should have kept our secret so I could stay with mommy.

Daddy touched me - I don't like it

I am young and innocent. From the age of 3 my father did inappropriate things.I don't understand. I know it doesn't feel right, I don't know why though.
As I grow older the behavior of my father continues to get more uncomfortable. Is this normal? Daddy says girls like to do this, it feels good. Daddy shows me pictures and tells me the girls like to do these things that we look at together. We look at pictures on his phone, we look at pictures in magazines.
Why would daddy lie? They must like it. I should like it.
I don't.
I am afraid. I am afraid to tell him no. I am afraid to tell him to stop.
He said he would shoot my mommy.
He spanks me, puts me on the dark and scary steps. He looks at me and his eyes are mean.
I have been telling my mommy. I have been showing her the things the girls do in the pictures. When I was little I tried to show her with my actions, behaviors as I couldn't find the words.
Mommy believes me and mommy tries to help.
I told my counselor, my sister and my brother. They believe me too.
Other people that are suppose to help won't. They must not believe me. Why won't they?
He takes me to the cabin in the woods. No one else is near, no one can hear. He made me touch him, he touched me and it hurt. He made me lick him and it was gross.
I drew pictures. I don't draw that well. They saw my pictures and they heard my story but they don't believe me.
Why?
Mommy asked me why I was so upset when she said I may have to go back to daddy, alone. No one will be there to supervise. I cried. I laid on the floor and cried. When mommy calmed me down I told her. "I don't want to go back, daddy will make me do it again."
Can someone help me? Mommy tries but she needs help.
I want to play. I want to sing and dance. I want to feel safe.
Who will keep me safe?

Nothing substantiated, CPS doesn't have to have facts or evidence.

Malia has disclosed that her father (Jacob M. Sadro) is molesting her. CPS caseworker Cherrie Mooney chose to disregard her statement. CPS chose not to investigate the father, CPS came after me.
I was never notified that I was being investigated. I was neever offered any services to keep Malia home with me. Cherrie Mooney called me late in the day on November 6th, 2013 to tell me I needed to appear in court the next afternoon. I asked her what was going on and she told me I could find out when I got there. I asked if I need an attorney and she said "No, but you can bring a SUPPORT person if you want."
Malia told her counselor that she saw pictures of girls sucking on guys penises and she drew 5 pictures for him. The officer Detective Darrin Siemen, did not interview her and no forensic was done at a center. The only person that spoke to her was Cherrie Mooney. Malia told the CPS worker daddy kissed her privates. Ms. Mooney asked where her clothes were. Malia said "my pants were by my knees". She told her about the pictures on the phone and daddy sleeping with her and he was naked. Worker decides that she was coached. One person, the one that should protect her doesn't believe her. Ms. Mooney had her removed from me, the one trying to keep her safe.
Why would the caseworker do this? No one can find the answer. Attorney's, other CPS workers that I know, a prosecutor, a P.I., counselors, family, neighbors, advocates - no one.
Since they nor I can find the answer, there must not really be a clear one. Some speculate it's personal, the CPS worker has it in for me. Why would she? I don't know her, I have never done anything to her.
There are many ideas but as of right now it is all speculation.
The reason doesn't matter to me so much, what bothers me is Malia is gone.. She no longer has me to protect her, hold her or support her. Malia is completely isolated from everyone and everything she knew and loved.
She is so brave telling the secret. What did telling her secret teach her? It taught her that she wasn't believed. It taught her that she would pay for telling. Malia was taught that she can trust no one and will never truly be safe. When Malia told she was suddenly removed from her world, she was thrown into a world full of strangers and strange things. Malia was isolated and alone.
CPS worker lied in court.The points on the removal petition had information that was over 2 years old, most was over 3 years old. They built a case on lies and their own thoughts. They have absolutely nothing to substantiate this. They did nothing to try and keep her home with me. This is what Ms. Mooney told the court that DHS had done to keep her in my home "our ---our numerous investigations,the police investigations, the psychological exams, the Child Advocacy Center interviews, and there has been counseling.
 For the record the last psychological assessment done involving this case was in March of 2013. The evaluation was done on Malia and it took 20 minutes. Malia spent 20 minutes with Randall Christiansen and he was able to determine in that amount of time that Malia did appear hypersensitive or quick to be victimized. All other evaluations and assessments were done years earlier. There were no current ones. No new attempts were brought to my attention. I was not asked to participate in any form of treatment to keep Malia in my home.
Ms. Mooney referred to a three year old evalution that I had done. She took one sentence from it "that great care should be taken to seriously investigate any accusations that it says she makes". (She being me) Ms. Mooney was asked this "In reading the psychological evaluations for Mary Jo Roggenbuck, was it your overall understanding that the psychological evaluator had concerns that she may be coaching Malia based on that sentence you just stated?" Mooney responded "Yes".

Ms. Mooney wanted Malia placed in NON-relative foster care and this was her reason. "I think we -- we will be looking at relatives, but right now a lot of relatives I'm not sure -- a lot of them have heard what might have happened with Malia and believe that it did happen, so I'm not sure what a -- what relative would be objective. She needs to be in a home that is objective and so she can feel free to care for her dad and her mom and not favor one or the other."

Ms. Mooney did not have clear and convincing evidence, she did not try and keep her in the home. Ms. Mooney wasn't even open to consider relative placement.
Ms. Mooney stated in court that she was uncertain if Jacob Sadro sexually abused Malia. Ms. Mooney did state that it was a big concern that I may be giving Malia information. Yet nothing in her testimony or the petition indicate Malia said I told her to say these things.
The petition also requested that my 16 year old daughter be removed. She has a different father and has never disclosed any form of abuse from any party. THe attorney for her father asked "What does that have to do with any physical or mental harm to ****** by staying with her mother? Ms. Mooney paused for a long time and said "I don't know."

When Ms. Mooney was asked about Malia disclosures her response was "We don't always look at the verbal, we have police investigations, we have physical exams, there's other proof other than somebody saying it".
Again why are children encouraged to tell, to seek help when the verbal is not enough?

Everything amounted to them setting an emergency hearing and taking her. That is the beginning, middle and end to them trying.

CPS can take anyone's child for any reason. Everyday CPS and our courts rip children away from good mothers. I want to know why it is so easy for them. I want to know who will investigate this. I want answers for my baby.