Friday, December 20, 2013

The Detective - where do they get their credentials?!

The Detective was not present during the CPS forensic. He was not going to interview my daughter as he had no experience. He also was not interested in her having one done at an assessment center.
He arrived at my home the day after I called CPS to let them know her disclosure.
She disclosed that daddy showed her pictures on his cell phone of girls sucking on guys penises. Girls pulling their butt cheeks apart. She said that daddy told her girls like to do that for guys. It feels good, they like it. He showed her this at the "sugar shack" cabin in the woods with a bed and a table. Later when she was naked and ready for her bath she jumped on the couch, pulled her legs apart and began to touch her privates. She said this is what the girls do in the pictures. She later while in the tub put her finger in her butt. She said "Mommy I put my finger in my butt." I asked "Why?" She replied "It feels good." I told her she could scratch herself, her hands are dirty. She told me "I like it."
I told this to the detective.
He asked me numerous questions. 2 pages of his report were about my interview.
The detective told me that he called the suspect and left him a voice mail.
This was his investigation of the father.It was done 6 days later, after he left him a message.
Detective asked father if he knew why he was there.
He stated he had no idea, but could assume it had something to do with *&^% (me) because she has contacted law enforcement and CPS so many times. The detective explained that *&^% had contacted him and filed a complaint on what their daughter had seen on his cell phone along with other issues of his parental care while she was with him.
When detective told me there were no pics on the phone I said "You gave him 6 days notice". He replied "He didn't know why I called him."
Detective asked if there was any porn on his phone and he stated no. He showed the detective his phone, after viewing pics and videos no porn was found.
He was asked about a sugar shack in the woods. Father said they have a cabin in the woods that they use to make maple syrup,but do not call it the "sugar shack". Detective asked if he ever takes his daughter to the cabin. He said yes as there is a pond there and they go fishing. Father then got on his phone and showed detective a google search where he was looking up how to raise wax worms for fishing. (did it occur to the detective that possibly daddy google porn on his phone to show his 6 year old daughter???)

He asked father if he ever touched his daughter in a sexual manner or if he ever kissed her butt or vagina. The father said "no way". Father became very upset over the question and stated he had to stop helping his daughter in the bathroom when she was a young child because of all the complaints *&^% filed against him. (actually my daughter told me this summer, "daddy still wipes my butt and I don't like it".- I sent him a text a asked him if he could let her do it herself, she was almost 6, he never replied). Father reiterated he has never touched his daughter in a sexual manner. (the detective stressed to me that suspect denied allegations, I said isn't that normal? The detective said "No, they often confess. Really when?????
The father stated if someone was to do that they should go to prison. ( his brother went to prison as a sex offender, his other brother was accused of molesting his teenage daughter. See the pattern??)
The father went on to say *&^% (me) was now going around to local churches and putting papers up that ask for them to pray for his daughter because she is exposed to a molester. (Where are these alleged signs? If dad says so it's true?? If daughter said daddy made me lick his penis it carries no weight.)

Detective asked our history. Father said we dated a while but I was seeing other people.(1 we never dated anyone, including him.) He was a brief affair while I was married. He stated he moved into my house (No he did not - I have 50 witnesses that know this). Our relationship did not work as I was out partying all the time. I was a mom of an infant at the time that did not sleep. I also has a full time job. Again he can say things and they are true. Father also stated he was concerned about his daughter in my care when he is not supervising me.
Father agreed to a polygraph yet failed to make either appointment.
Detective did let me know how willing suspect was to take the poly. I said "Yep, but he never took it."

That is the beginning and end of his investigation.

The assistant prosecutor said my daughter was not competent, so no subpoena for phone, no warrant for sugar shack.
I stopped at their office and was given a post it telling me to talk to CPS. My daughter had made new disclosures and no one would help. I again called the prosecutors office and my call was not returned.

If your 5 year old daughter came home from a visit and told you these things would you feel as though she were given a fair criminal investigation???
He closed his report without ever speaking to her counselor even though I faxed him a letter from the counselor. The counselor had a disclosure and pictures. My daughter disclosed twice after this and I informed the detective. He told me "investigation is over, it is in CPS's hands now."
Oh by the way the detective and the suspect used to work together at a factory. Wouldn't that be a conflict?

1 comment:

  1. There would certainly bias if both the detective and the suspect knew each other and perhaps became friends at some point. They should let someone else handle the case.
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